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 Monday, December 14, 2009

Holiday Traditions

By Diana Hsieh @ 2:00 PM

On OGrownups, some people have been discussing favorite holiday traditions. That got me thinking.

Although I love Christmas, Paul and I don't do much for it. He usually volunteers to work the whole Christmas holiday, in part so that he's sure to get time off for other holidays like Fourth of July and Thanksgiving. This year, he's working ten days straight from the 21st to the 29th, then he has a four-day weekend for New Year's. Often, he's so busy that we don't even open presents until a few days after Christmas. That's not bad though: I like stretching out the fun over a few days.

Some years, I've decorated the house, but that seems like too much work this year. I just don't have much energy, and I'd rather spend what little energy I have setting up the new barn. I also tend to do lots of cooking over the holidays, and this year, I'll be experimenting more with my Sous Vide Supreme. But again, I'm just not up for much: I'm still too easily worn out due to my hypothyroidism.

That all sounds rather depressing, I know. However, Paul and I are not entirely bereft of Christmas cheer. We do have two very important traditions:

First and foremost, Paul and I stay home for the holidays. I hate to fly during the crazy rush of the holidays, and I find that I don't much enjoy visiting family during the frantic bustle of holiday get-togethers. I love spending time with my parents, but I found that holiday visits were less than fun. So I stopped them; we visit at other times, when tons of fun will be had by all. (Such is the liberating power of an ethic of selfishness! Most people feel obliged to visit family over the holidays, whether they enjoy doing so or not.)

Second, Paul and I enjoy a fabulously fancy dinner with some of our local Objectivist friends. The past few years, we've dined at Opus in Littleton, always a gastronomic delight. I'm looking forward to doing that again this year.

Normally, Paul and I also take a few days off in early January to go skiing and/or snowshoeing. I don't think I'm up for that this year. It's not just the physical activities that would wear me out, but the travel itself, and the preparation for the travel. Right now, I'm exhausted by the mere thought of driving three miles to the Post Office to pick up a package. I'm not always so bad; I've been particularly worn out today, from the moment I woke up. Still, staying at home seems like all I want to do this year. Paul has that time off, so perhaps we can enjoy some more modest fun around Denver.

So... all of that was just a long-winded way of asking: What traditions do you enjoy to make your holidays of year particularly enjoyable? What could you do this year -- or next year -- to make it more enjoyable?

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Monday, December 14, 2009 at 14:51:59 mst
Comment ID: #1
Name: PDS
E-mail: pdspds(at)gmail.com

12 years ago synthroid more or less changed my life. Your situation sounds similar to mine, pre-synthroid. I know some folks poo-pooed the effects of synthroid here a while back, but that hasn't been my experience, for whatever it might be worth.


Monday, December 14, 2009 at 18:57:43 mst
Comment ID: #2
Name: Caroline

A few years back I emerged exhausted from a harried, frazzled Christmas of trying to do too many things, and decided to redefine my celebration on my own terms. Not so much downscaling as just refocusing on what I enjoy most about Christmas.

Having a design background, I ended up with a strongly decor-focused holiday. Each year gets a new decor theme that is carried out in various Christmas trees and indoor holiday decor. Gift wrap is elaborate and quite over the top by most standards, but it makes Christmas more fun for me. This year I just added another white Christmas tree with fiber optic lighting that transitions through all the colors of the rainbow. I am also making a tabletop scene of a sparkling white winter forest with reindeer and a snow frosted house. Next year I am considering expanding the scene with a skating pond, and maybe a train set.

In my family, there used to be a tradition of going to church on Christmas eve. However, when all the kids grew up we became atheists so we stopped that tradition. Instead, we dress up for Christmas eve in cocktail finery and have an elegant punchbowl of super-strong eggnog. Much better than church!

Another great Christmas tradition is finding new Christmas music. There is a lot of joyful classical music, especially Bach, and also some wonderful popular music, including some delightfully bawdy works.


Tuesday, December 15, 2009 at 7:59:30 mst
Comment ID: #3
Name: Tom Rowland
E-mail: atlasfan(at)earthlink.net

Last year Julie and I were just too busy to do much of anything. But this year, given evough energy, we're going to up teh level a bit with a small miniature (not the same thing)winter scene, a small christmeas tree, and some lights. The extended family that live nearby will be getting together to enoy some meals together. Julie has some deadlines for papers to finish her Master's program and I will be working on some of the details of my novel.

Diana, is it possible that some of your balaise isdoe to the contrast between your pre and post-graduation life. I know that I experiencesd a big change in my disposition and energy when I had to drop out of my program and didn't teach any more or write papers, etc. Sure do wish for you a return of your energy. Doesn't look like you've lost your zest for life though.


Tuesday, December 15, 2009 at 8:23:23 mst
Comment ID: #4
Name: Diana Hsieh
E-mail: diana(at)dianahsieh.com
URL: http://www.dianahsieh.com/blog

Tom -- No, I don't think that my completing my dissertation has anything to do with my current state. The timing isn't right, and the symptoms are very clearly rooted in a completely physical problem. At most, I might have staved off the problem by diet and force of will for a while, but I even doubt that. (I just don't seem to have any mental control over my symptoms.) In any case, my problems clearly need a physical remedy.

Also, I have lost some of my zest for life. That -- meaning the periodic depression, the constant emotional flatness -- is the worst of it. It's so completely unlike me, but standard with hypothyroidism. (People are often mis-disagnosed, then put on anti-depressants that mask the symptoms. I won't do that.)

Thanks for your concern -- and I hope that you do get your winter scene up this year!


Tuesday, December 15, 2009 at 9:24:22 mst
Comment ID: #5
Name: Mike
E-mail: michaelbahr(at)cox.net

I like Caroline's decor idea. I'll share that with Steph -- household decor is her sandbox.

This will be the fifth holiday season for us in which we shuttle between three extended families throughout the 24th-25th-26th. Steph's father died young, so there is his family and her stepfather's family both to visit, as well as my folks. This will be the third holidays for us with a child (two this time!) and we have found that it's very easy to make the family happy -- and very gratifying to be able to give that happiness to them -- simply by bringing the girls and taking care of the sundries while they play with Nana, Papa, Grandma, Grandpa, four remaining Great Grandparents, and various levels of Aunts and Uncles.

One tradition that has grown kind of organically that we're trying to continue is to go to at least one big football game for the Christmas holidays as a couple, and as many more as possible with friends and family. We can usually score Fiesta Bowl tickets cheap and Insight Bowl tickets for close to nothing, and I have Cardinals season tickets in the front row so there are usually a game or two bracketed around the holiday week. This year we have the Rams on 12/27 and I'm going, and the Packers on 1/3 but I sold those off. From 2005 to 2007, we hit all three every year. Last year we missed the Fiesta. It's a very fun tradition that will hopefully stick.


Tuesday, December 15, 2009 at 18:26:31 mst
Comment ID: #6
Name: C Andrew
E-mail: ca4papen(at)mindspring.com

I think we need to put Christ back in Christmas 8-)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GtICZNUsDtQ


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