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 Tuesday, December 09, 2008

Our Dog Kate

By Diana Hsieh @ 11:00 AM

This morning, Paul and I had to put our much-beloved dog Kate to sleep. She was diagnosed with an abdominal fatty tumor a few weeks ago. We'd hoped that it was benign and operable. Surgery was planned for a month from now, to allow her to recover sufficiently from an independent problem, namely an infected heart valve. However, late last week, the tumor spread to her spine. Her hind end became totally paralyzed over the course of a day, leaving her unable to walk. Nothing more could be done for her. Still, saying good-bye was very painful for us.

We adopted Kate as a full-grown adult on January 5th, 2000. She was our faithful companion for nearly nine years. She was the easiest dog to live with that I've ever known: her overriding goal in life was to be a good member of the pack. And she did that superbly. In return, we gave her an easy and happy dog's life.

We are going to miss her terribly.

Here are some pictures to remember her by:

2000:



2004:



2006:



Just last night:



We miss you, Kate!

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Tuesday, December 9, 2008 at 11:27:04 mst
Comment ID: #1
Name: Flibbert
E-mail: junk(at)treygivens.com
URL: http://flibbertigibbet.mu.nu/

awwww... I'm sorry for your loss and I hope she didn't suffer too much from the diseases.


Tuesday, December 9, 2008 at 11:33:32 mst
Comment ID: #2
Name: Paula
E-mail: paula.hall(at)live.com
URL: http://www.msthink.com

Again, I'm so sorry. Makes me a little weepy just to think about it . . . I guess that's what happens when you become a dog-owner, too. Your comment about being a good member of the pack was especially affecting to me.


Tuesday, December 9, 2008 at 11:38:06 mst
Comment ID: #3
Name: Monica
E-mail: monicabeth10(at)gmail.com
URL: http://fa-rm.org

My sincerest condolences, Diana. The loss of my own dog was the hardest emotional thing I have ever been through in life (and I've been through a lot!) so I can imagine the difficulty of your loss.


Tuesday, December 9, 2008 at 11:41:21 mst
Comment ID: #4
Name: Thomas Shoebotham
E-mail: celloshoe(at)yahoo.com

My condolences, as a fellow pet lover who's had to see a few put down (cats and dogs). Never easy, even when its the right thing to do.


Tuesday, December 9, 2008 at 11:46:43 mst
Comment ID: #5
Name: Richard
E-mail: rbramwell(at)sympatico.ca

Our dogs and cats become such a value. I am very sorry for the loss in both your lives. I have been there many times and I will always remember each one; glad they were in my life; sad they are no longer. With each one, I found myself valuing life and even justice more than before.


Tuesday, December 9, 2008 at 12:06:57 mst
Comment ID: #6
Name: William H Stoddard
E-mail: whswhs(at)mindspring.com
URL: http://whswhs.livejournal.com/profile

I quite understand what you're feeling. We had to make a similar decision for our cat Felon a few years ago; he could have been kept alive longer, but it would have meant having his chest drained every few weeks for the rest of his life, and we thought that was no life for him. Fortunately, our vets let us sit with him in his final moments, and we did, crying buckets. It was hard, but I have never changed my mind about it being the right choice. It sounds as if you made the right choice too.

One thing that happened with me, at least, is that as time went by, that huge experience of his death shrank in our memories, and the total experience of his life grew. And now I look back and am glad to have those memories. Even the things that annoyed the hell out of me at the time have taken on a kind of luminance. I hope this is not just something peculiar to the way my mind works, but something that can happen to other people, you among them.


Tuesday, December 9, 2008 at 12:29:56 mst
Comment ID: #7
Name: Rational Jenn
E-mail: rationaljenn(at)gmail.com
URL: http://rationaljenn.blogspot.com

So sorry to hear about Kate. We just went through the same thing a couple of months ago (our kitty). So difficult, even when you know it's for the best.


Tuesday, December 9, 2008 at 12:54:26 mst
Comment ID: #8
Name: Mark Wickens
E-mail: noodlefood(at)wickens.ca
URL: http://randex.org

Sorry to hear that, Diana and Paul. I went through a similar situation with my cat -- it happened so suddenly, it was a bit hard to take in at first.


Tuesday, December 9, 2008 at 13:21:34 mst
Comment ID: #9
Name: Tom Rowland
E-mail: trowland08(at)gmail.com

This had to be a sad day for you. Every time I've had to put one of my cats to sleep or give them away I was heartbroken. In fact, just the thought of how much I know you must miss Kate, and the way you have made her a part of your writing - and thus our lives -- here, brings a tear. When I shared the news with Julie, she said to send you her fellow-human-being sadness, as well.


Tuesday, December 9, 2008 at 13:33:09 mst
Comment ID: #10
Name: Don
E-mail: egoist(at)gmail.com

Awful news. I'm happy I had the pleasure to meet her...she really was a sweetie. My best to both of you.


Tuesday, December 9, 2008 at 13:56:47 mst
Comment ID: #11
Name: Adam
E-mail: amossoff(at)gmail.com

Our dogs are very much our family members, and so please know that my thoughts are with you and Paul as you mourn your loss.


Tuesday, December 9, 2008 at 14:21:50 mst
Comment ID: #12
Name: Fortitudine
E-mail: canadian.republic(at)hotmail.com
URL: www.thecanadianrepublic.blogspot.com

I'm sorry to hear of your loss. Kate looks like a beautiful dog.


Tuesday, December 9, 2008 at 14:22:17 mst
Comment ID: #13
Name: Kris
E-mail: kbiniek(at)hotmail.com

I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and Paul.


Tuesday, December 9, 2008 at 15:26:35 mst
Comment ID: #14
Name: Andrew Baker

I lost my cat in January and I still have dreams where I feel her soft company. I understand how a pet's company is not interchangeable. My condolences.


Tuesday, December 9, 2008 at 16:29:37 mst
Comment ID: #15
Name: catherine

So Sorry! What a beauty. Will be thinking of you.


Tuesday, December 9, 2008 at 16:37:20 mst
Comment ID: #16
Name: John Harris
E-mail: John.Harris00 at gmail.com

I'm sorry for your loss Diana, and Paul. :(

I know what it's like to loose your favorite pet, it's hard.

John.


Tuesday, December 9, 2008 at 16:42:43 mst
Comment ID: #17
Name: Michael Labeit
E-mail: logician169(at)yahoo.com
URL: http://unit-perspective.blogspot.com

I plan on finding a sire for my dog so that the existence of puppies from my dog can mitigate against the thought of putting my vizsla to sleep eventually.

My condolences.


Tuesday, December 9, 2008 at 17:03:08 mst
Comment ID: #18
Name: Andy O

I have been a regular reader of Paul's blog for years. My deepest condolences to you both. I hope the nine years you had together were filled with some great memories, and I bhope these help get you through the days ahead. All the best to you both.


Tuesday, December 9, 2008 at 17:03:19 mst
Comment ID: #19
Name: Andy O

I have been a regular reader of Paul's blog for years. My deepest condolences to you both. I hope the nine years you had together were filled with some great memories, and I hope these help get you through the days ahead. All the best to you both.


Tuesday, December 9, 2008 at 17:11:20 mst
Comment ID: #20
Name: Joe Maurone
E-mail: spaceplayer2112(at)hotmail.com
URL: http://superherobabylong.blogspot.com

I'm really sorry to hear. :(


Tuesday, December 9, 2008 at 17:40:59 mst
Comment ID: #21
Name: Bill Perry
E-mail: wperryster(at)gmail(dot)com

Diana and Paul,

My condolences also. Like Don I've enjoyed meeting Kate, and can attest that she was a great dog.

Bill


Tuesday, December 9, 2008 at 17:51:15 mst
Comment ID: #22
Name: Anonymous

Sorry to hear that it was her time to go. You must have been doing something right for her to have had what was a pretty long run for a big dog.

I had to put down my beloved German shepherd, King, 35 years ago; he was only about 6 years old. Probably bad heart, definitely bad hips. Could have kept him going a bit longer, but it would have meant major medications and possibly draining of fluid.

I was 19 at the time; but painful as his death was, it was a springboard for me to leave home and be off on my own.

I still dream about King once in a while.


Tuesday, December 9, 2008 at 19:42:42 mst
Comment ID: #23
Name: Amy
E-mail: mossoffa(at)gmail.com
URL: http://www.amymossoff.com

I'm so sorry. It's so hard to let them go.


Tuesday, December 9, 2008 at 19:58:01 mst
Comment ID: #24
Name: Wayne Kline

When I lost my golden retriever, I was comforted by the following Kipling poem. Despite a passing Christian reference, I consider it grounded in this world even including the expected lifespan of a dog at 14 years.

THE POWER OF THE DOG
Rudyard Kipling
There is sorrow enough in the natural way
From men and women to fill our day;
But when we are certain of sorrow in store,
Why do we always arrange for more?
Brothers and sisters I bid you beware
Of giving your heart to a dog to tear.

Buy a pup and your money will buy
Love unflinching that cannot lie--
Perfect passion and worship fed
By a kick in the ribs or a pat on the head.
Nevertheless it is hardly fair
To risk your heart for a dog to tear.

When the fourteen years that nature permits
Are closing in asthma or tumors or fits
And the vet's unspoken prescription runs
To lethal chambers, or loaded guns.
Then you will find--its your own affair
But--you've given your heart to a dog to tear.

When the body that lived at your single will
When the whimper of welcome is stilled (how still!)
When the spirit that answered your every mood
Is gone--wherever it goes--for good,
You still discover how much you care
And will give your heart to a dog to tear.

We've sorrow enough in the natural way
When it comes to burying Christian clay.
Our loves are not given, but only lent,
At compound interest of cent per cent.
Though it is not always the case, I believe,
That the longer we've kept 'em the more do we grieve;
For when debts are payable, right or wrong,
A short time loan is as bad as a long--
So why in Heaven (before we are there)
Should we give our hearts to a dog to tear?


Tuesday, December 9, 2008 at 21:07:09 mst
Comment ID: #25
Name: Jeff Montgomery
E-mail: jamontgom(at)hotmail.com
URL: http://funwithgravity.blogspot.com/

She looks like a sweetheart. Sorry for your loss.


Tuesday, December 9, 2008 at 21:28:47 mst
Comment ID: #26
Name: Brian S.
URL: http://wakalix.com

I'm so sorry for your loss, Paul and Diana. Kate sounded like a wonderful part of your lives.


Tuesday, December 9, 2008 at 22:02:30 mst
Comment ID: #27
Name: Doug A.
URL: http://ruleofreason.blogspot.com

I love dogs and I know how they can be a cherished member of the family. My deepest condolences.


Tuesday, December 9, 2008 at 23:27:37 mst
Comment ID: #28
Name: KPO'M
E-mail: ka84796(at)comcast.net

That's too bad. At least you have your memories and your pictures, and it sounds like she went quickly.


Wednesday, December 10, 2008 at 2:06:08 mst
Comment ID: #29
Name: Doug H.
E-mail: radiotheatre[at]gmail[dot]com

My sister and her husband put down their dalmatian this September. Though he wasn't my dog, I spent a lot of time with him. I fed him, cared for him, and grew up with him. He had many health problems after his first three years, but lived on to nearly his 12th birthday. He was fairly timid, but when he would find an open stretch of land he would bound around happily at top speed. He didn't like other dogs very much, but was very affectionate with people. I keep a photo of him next to my work space from when he and I were young, it reminds me of the simple and pure joy to be found in the companionship of dogs. I was present to observe the decision of putting him down, and I know how difficult that emotional process can be, even when the course of action seems so clear. I truly empathize with your loss.


Wednesday, December 10, 2008 at 9:24:25 mst
Comment ID: #30
Name: Berenice Ugalde
E-mail: berenice.ugalde(at)yahoo.com

Diana & Paul,

You have my sincere condolences on the loss of Kate.

Words can sometimes be inadequate and may not comfort your pain, so instead I am sending you a hug and hope that Kate’s happy memories may help you cope with the grieving of her loss.

Regards,

Berenice Ugalde
(2FROG)


Wednesday, December 10, 2008 at 10:19:11 mst
Comment ID: #31
Name: Adam Buker
E-mail: adam(at)adambuker.com
URL: http://www.adambuker.com

I remember when my family had to put our beloved Great Dane, Rufus, down. It was hard to see him go after he spent a little over ten years with us (and most Great Danes live to be only 7). I am very sorry for your loss as no doubt Kate was every much a part of your family as Rufus was with ours. I can only take comfort in the fact that nowhere in the Bible does it state that Jesus is not a raptor (oh come on, you both could use a laugh right now).


Wednesday, December 10, 2008 at 11:09:29 mst
Comment ID: #32
Name: brian0918
E-mail: my handle, through gmail

I'm sorry for your loss. :(

This last year we've lost 3 dogs that I grew up with and loved. It's been rough...


Wednesday, December 10, 2008 at 11:43:29 mst
Comment ID: #33
Name: Diana Hsieh
E-mail: diana(at)dianahsieh.com
URL: http://www.dianahsieh.com/blog

Thank you so much for all of these comments. While no one knew or loved Kate the way Paul and I did, I'm grateful to hear how much your own pets have meant to you. That makes me feel a bit less lonely here in my dog-less house.


Wednesday, December 10, 2008 at 11:55:44 mst
Comment ID: #34
Name: Sascha Settegast
E-mail: sascha.settegast(at)gmx.de

Diana, Paul, I am sorry to hear about your pain.


Wednesday, December 10, 2008 at 16:10:52 mst
Comment ID: #35
Name: Ryan C
URL: http://ryantheegoist.blogspot.com/

The joy a dog can bring someone's life is amazing, and it is sad when you come to the realization that, really, a member of the family probably won't live more than 10-14 years. I know how you must feel, and it is a rotten feeling.

Best wishes to you during this hard time of mourning.


Wednesday, December 10, 2008 at 17:25:05 mst
Comment ID: #36
Name: Susan
E-mail: susancrawford(at)aol.com

So sorry to hear of the loss of a beloved pet. My condolences.


Thursday, December 11, 2008 at 7:02:47 mst
Comment ID: #37
Name: Jennifer (Conversion Diary)
E-mail: jensblogemail(at)gmail.com
URL: http://www.conversiondiary.com

That is so devastating. I'm really sorry to hear that.


Sunday, December 14, 2008 at 15:26:24 mst
Comment ID: #38
Name: Philipe M.
E-mail: philipe.marques (a) gmail (dot) com
URL: http://www.matizes.escondidos.zip.net

A little cutie she was! If she died, it was because she lived. And if she lived, she loved and was loved too.


Tuesday, December 16, 2008 at 21:53:35 mst
Comment ID: #39
Name: Luka

I'm sorry for your loss, guys.


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